Communication doesn't work anymore

[diwana]

Re: Communication doesn’t work anymore

@TeriDulhan

Everyone says communication is the cornerstone of a happy marriage…but it just doesn’t work for us anymore and I don’t think it ever did. Even communicating about mundane things like day to day errands seems like a losing battle because of the attitude he takes towards me. **I used to tell him how I felt and what bothered me but they always led to really bad fights so I stopped. **

I love my husband and he’s not a bad guy. I want to appreciate him more but communication is one of the bases of a marriage, that we don’t have and…I just don’t know. I just don’t feel like I can talk to him about anything. He says I can but past experiences have really hurt me and made me change myself.

and yes before some smart ass comes in here, I admit that I am not a newbie, I am not a troll and I’d appreciate some genuine advice and respect for my privacy. Thanks.

You need to tell what exactly you want to communicate and what have you done so far to communicate.