You know those people that are meanie to you at one point in life , guilty of being taunting and pointing out your insecurities on purpose ; while at a later time they begin acting supper nice like your buddies .
Now my question is , do they forget or do they think we must have forgotten? Why do they do that:hmmm:?
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I dont know about others, but i never forget. I believe if i dont hurt anyone than no one has the right to hurt me, still i dont hurt them back, but always keep a distance from them. People dont know the meaning of forgiving these days, if you forgive anyone on his/her mistake, they will think your fool and if someone does that on purpose one time, he/she will not hesitate to do that again. So i usually dont feel forgetting either
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Most likely they have forgotten, cuz you have to be quite inconsequential for them to be meanie to you in the first place.
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i would forgive but hardly forget
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maybe they feel that being mean is useless and trying to be a nicer/better person?
and if u never confronted them about their mean behavior, maybe they think you never even noticed it?
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People move on and thats that.
I am always amused at those TV shows where ppl want to confront someone who was mean to them in high school because they were overweight, unattractive, clumsy, poorly groomed etc..and now they are good looking (or think that they are) and want to do a "see me now" thing.
while the pain and hurt faced back then was very real, but if the person has changed ..its kind of hard to hold a grown up accountable for their stupid stuff when they were 12-13 years old
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^ that reminds me of so many Friends episodes..
People grow up... there were many hideous things i did as a kid.. or had others do to me. I am not going to fret over it now. Wish I could change things that i may have said/done... but the past is the past.