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he better not dance with any other girl 
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^ if you take your guy to a place where there's plenty of almost naked chicks gyrating their bodies and displaying their assets, then dont blame him if his eyes wander and his body betrays him...and you :)
Wallah, what is wrong with people, do the basic principles of Islam not matter anymore to anyone ? Clubs are as haram as it gets, dance at home in private if you wish, but please, dont go running around to places where sin is rampart.
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Yes maniac ur right, unfortunately, if you try to bring religion into it, you're a fanatic mullah who does not know hw to have fun. I agree with you thougH :)
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yeah somehow people seem to equate being religious to not having fun :) Oh well..to each his own. The real fun begins in the afterlife.
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if u dont have anything better to gain attention then feel free to SHAKE UR THING and GIVING SOME LAPS .. geting proper attention is one of ur RIGHTS.
p/s: make sure ... u dont gross ppl out with ur shaking now .. and if ur dark brown then dont even think abt it.
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nahi..hum shareef log hain
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which respectable man/woman would go clubbing and see their spouse dance with some1 else? why would you want to go into such an atmosphere?
in my opinion only cheap people go clubbing....those who cant find a girl/guy in any other way. maybe guys see it as an easy way of getting a cheap girl for a one night stand.
its sick. Ive never been clubbing....and never will no matter what happens in my life.
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yep nothign wrong with some good ol dancing :D
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lol, some of you people really crack me up. There are some perfectly fine clubs for older people that don't have the stupidness and nastiness that the clubs for the younger people seem to enjoy. And who says that when you go to a club with your spouse, you dance with other people? Why on earth would you? You have a partner already, why look for others?
Clubs (if you are chosey) are a good place to go and have fun with your spouse and dance. If I am reading some of you right, you are either saying if you dance with your partner you are wrong or "westernized" or you are saying that you shouldn't have fun together after marriage. Why not? Is marriage supposed to be a chore and all fun stops after you recite vows and wear a ring? That is so sad, really it is. Flirting and doing things together as a team (ie dancing, going to movies, going out to eat) keep your marriage strong.
Come on people, lighten up, dancing is one of the most romantic things you can do with a spouse and flirting is awesome when you dance. I love the feel of my husbands arms, especially slow dancing or when doing the tango, now THAT is something else.
Think about it first as a COUPLE before you unilaterally condemn anyone who dares keep that spark in their marriage. Maybe the problem isn't them, it may be your percetion that is a bit off.
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clubbing is, like, so 1999. Omigod....
Turns away and struts off, swaying her booty and shorts that say MILF
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yeh we have clubs in dbai that the whole family can go to....great food family fun and everyone dancing together it's real sweet
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Minah_Pa :k: :k: :k: :k: :k:
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I think my husband and I went to a club once with a bunch of single friends just after we got married. We just stood there and said to eachother that we are so glad we're not single anymore. It was just a sad, meatmarket. However we had fun at another event (work related). It was much more elegant. I had never seen my husband dance before so I tried to drag him out on the dancefloor. I requested Abba's "Dancing Queen" cheesy I know. But it was one of those cute and funny moments where he got a little nervous and he still talks about that dance.
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Minah...good points...
And as for impulse among others...u seem to speak a lot about things that you dont know about...for people who have never stepped in a club you seem to think you know all there is to it?
As for my opinion...Its not something i see myself doing regularly...there are more intimate places to take your wife than to a club...Clubbing is a lot more fun when you are single...when you are attached it loses its purpose somewhat...you want to take your partner where it is quiet and you have privacy...rather than on a dancefloor where you cant chat or be intimate with her discreetly...its not my scene unless im single...stuff like balls and concerts i think are all good...or things like friends birthday parties id probably go to a club...otherwise i just feel there are better places to spend with your partner...
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Minah :k:
I think we may all have a different idea of what a club is. In my definition, club/partying is crowded, dark lights, loud crappy music with people dancing all over, alcohol flowing, ppl goin crazy, that’s it… it’s a place where ppl my age go to hook up or dance with one another, you know all that stupidness and nastiness you just described :D.
Minah, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with having fun with one another and that’s not what ppl r talkin bout here. What a lot of ppl are against is slutty girls and guys hanging over ur spouse. That’s a 
Personally, dancing or flirting is kewl, but not with someone else. Some ppl may not approve of dancing in public due to religious or cultural reasons, but yeah you’re deff right, marriage should be fun. That’s what my mom says, when i get married I can have all the fun, going to parties, concerts, movies, going out at night, dressing up extra, having sex 
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i dont know the where the heck these questions comes out from. bull crap. minah you arent even a muslim so how would you know its perfectly alright for a muslim to go clubbing or not? :rotato:
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hmmm... i think it'd be fun :)
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YES. THANKYOU. i would like doing things with my husband ie: playing pool, dancing, SHOPPING, movies, etc.
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^ and so u should... he's ur husband.. not anyone. I say take him shopping, dancing, clubbing, gardening, shipping., camping.. watever... enjoy life and stuff what others say