I think we may all have a different idea of what a club is. In my definition, club/partying is crowded, dark lights, loud crappy music with people dancing all over, alcohol flowing, ppl goin crazy, that’s it… it’s a place where ppl my age go to hook up or dance with one another, you know all that stupidness and nastiness you just described :D.
Minah, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with having fun with one another and that’s not what ppl r talkin bout here. What a lot of ppl are against is slutty girls and guys hanging over ur spouse. That’s a Personally, dancing or flirting is kewl, but not with someone else. Some ppl may not approve of dancing in public due to religious or cultural reasons, but yeah you’re deff right, marriage should be fun. That’s what my mom says, when i get married I can have all the fun, going to parties, concerts, movies, going out at night, dressing up extra, having sex