Re: Clubbing, Going to Bars and Beaches
Peace mercenary2k
We should protect ourselves from harms way. First of all if a sister that you may have saw you go in to a nightclub would you not be stood making excuses for yourself? If you were someone that other Muslims respected and they saw you go in to a nightclub might that encourage them to go? Will they have the same intentions as you?
Although you do not intend to see evil no doubt you will see it and hear it in those places. Did you know that as an Islamic responsibility when you see a crime moral or legal you should stop it, if you cannot stop it then you need to speak out against it and if you cannot speak out against it then you must dislike it in your heart which is the weakest of iman. By going regularly to such places will you not be at risk of training yourself of slowly accepting the evil around as normal?
On the day of Judgement we will be raised amongst those who we associate with are you not willing to be amonst the company of those favoured by Allah (SWT)?
Even if we don't start the fire our clothes will smell of smoke ...
... Consider it a crime to go clubbing, no rather consider that instead of clubbing you and your friends go "clubbing some innocent people to death", but you choose not to pick up a baton to hit anyone. In a court of law will you or will you not be called an accomplice? Seeing that you went with them, you didn't stop them and you didn't tell the authority about them ....
Sh. Muhammad Al-Yaqoubi was a small child and he was walking down with his father in the streets of Damascus and there was a commotion, the young sheikh to be started to look at the crowd forming but his father stopped him and told him to look where he was going and not to be attracted by the crowd of bother, he said to him
"Do you want to be held accountable on the Day of Judgement for the evil you saw?"
You see when we see evil it our obligation to stop it, otherwise keeping away from it protects us from that obligation.
Apart from this we can not move our hearts in sincerity to Allah (SWT) after they have been tainted by loud music, the smells of spirits, wine, beer, perfume and hormonal sweat, excessive laughter, erotic images and so on. These are things that even if we glimpse an ear, eye or nose to we become stained and it becomes very hard to purify the heart once it is stained.
Let me ask you a question .... "Is it not true that although you may not drink ... when your company gets drunk around you ... you begin to get passively drunk and without the alcohol will be talking just as much nonesense as they will be?"