Re: cloth nappy or diappers ?
^ well, yeah, thats a good point.
in canada they have services for cloth nappies- such as Home - Happy Nappy Diaper Service - they drop off a clean bundle for a week, pick up the dirty diapers at the end of the week and drop off some more fresh ones in place but it costs a bit more than a disposable diaper, i believe.
but as niksik pointed out, i’ve found out thru friends that you have to be very careful in terms of cleaning up their pees and poos quickly so they don’t get rashes. however, cloth diapers are wayyy more environmentally friendly whereas most disposables just sit in landfills for decades. just something to think about.
in the end, really, its your choice and you have to do whats right for your baby. you need to get that across to your inlaws in a friendly way.