Do you think it is important to bring a closure to relationships?
Distances can be quite cruel at times..people drift apart..grow out of the bond they once shared. Sometimes people just change..habits, like and dislikes. In such cases when you are not compatible with someone anymore do you just distance yourself ..touch base once in a while or just leave without a word..or communicate the differences and put an end to the relationship.
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i dont think its important. if people change relationship fades on its own. and if both sides know and understand what's happening.. why analyse it further when it seems to be painless and peaceful break.
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umm I think closure is needed..
aksar people break up without discussing why and that leaves negative thoughts..
I think u should come clean .... exactly like you said its not the people but the circumstances and its very important to tell the other that..
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^ Closure is not needed. Is say Mazdoor hartaal par chale jaate hain 
(kidding)
I think surror is right. Its quite visible and one has to understand. If one still likes to be in touch and he/she is hurt in anyway his/her right to ask for explanation is indeliable, hence you are right too 
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Suroor – don’t you think a peaceful end like that leaves the other person hanging
Munya & Aejaz – sometimes it is not the circumstances..it is other people or you.
Lussi – jaan choR yaar.
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Personally, I believe closure is needed if you want to be able to move on and have some sort of peace. There's also that slight chance that you can remain friends and won't develop bitter feelings - which is exactly what will happen if one of the two finds it easier to just ignore/avoid/run away from the situation rather than dealing with it head on.
You CAN move on without closure ... it'll just be much harder emotionally and may take longer cause a person may dwell on the fact that there was no closure ... if that makes any sense.
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I think you need it, I needed it, but I lived without it and when i think about how heartless the break away was... it sort of insults every ounce of love I ever shared with him.
Is it so hard to meet one last time and say your goodbyes without being nasty?
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Goodbyes are always soo awkward.. it aint worth going through it.
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well if both of them understand why things are changing and why they are drifting apart in the first place, i dont see any reason to go into it when the reason is visible to both of them already.
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if it was people then why would you be attracted in the first place..
aijaz: 
Haiin? kiya??? Damn right, there better be closure!!!
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I think it depends i have 2 cousins and i was very close with them.
Well 1 cousin had some problems and leave her house go live at her
own, Since she moved out our relationship completely fade away.
I try to contact her but she never give response back :( *
*The other cousin i talk sometime's but also not that way how
it use to be coz she is bussy with study what i can understand.
Im person like i dont always Closure Relationships. Its Depends what the
reason are.
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I think honesty is important. If you dont feel the same way about a person as they feel for you, you should let them know. At the same time if you feel something about another person, you should let them know – not fear that you might get rejected.
Too many times people screw up relationships when they either leave without a word, or leave with a fight.
What you feel about the person, you should tell them.
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^ relationships can mean friendships...
Fayz, i dunno if closure is really needed... i mean if ur not referring to closure as a proper discussion b/w the two parties to end the relationship.. i dunno
i usually think that silent closure is just as good.. u both accept u arent the same anymore and that uve moved on.. but then again.. everyone is different.. for me i dont necessarily need to have a full on discussion session with someone to know that our friendship (if thats what ur tlaking about) is not going anywhere..
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Yes Sadz I’m talking about all kinds or relationships..with your cousins, siblings, friends
Not Needed
Suroor. Aejaz, Ahmadjee, Sadz
Needed
Munya, Mehnaz, Nilu, MQ
Ladies and gentleman we have a tie.
Personally, I think closure is needed if the other person initiates the breakup and it is not needed if you want to separate. We are not fair with relationships..we go by what suits us in majority of the cases….quite selfish but true.
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its very imp to give a closure in an active relaitonship where u decide to walk out coz things didnt work out. Dont just leave the person in the oblivion thinking what the heck happened, where did s/he go wrong. It hurts, but then it will help both of u to move on, u need to put an end to the story or else the other person is left to his/her own imagination. Its a small world u might just bump into her/him again, so if u came clean in the first place then thers no reason to hide or get embarrased.
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Think how you would like to be treated. And what you know of the other person. I think it's better to communicate clearly and respectfully.
What about a goodbye that says , thanks for being there when I needed you... I will remember you and wish you the best ... now our lives are taking different directions.... something like that?