Really? That’s funny. Because I’m pretty sure the locals don’t consider you guys as members of the “family”. Rather unwanted guests that are of some use.
To the OP: I guess you’re speaking from experience. No one giving you enough time in South Africa? Not enough family time? It’s highly rude of you to imply in a sarcastic tone that everyone who has decided to go to other countries as “clever heads”. Please stop generalizing. If one wants to remember Allah, they will do it even where there aren’t any humans found. I have no idea where you are getting your facts from, because if things are going to be screwed up, if people want to forget their families, they’re going to be messed up anywhere, doesn’t matter if they decided to stay in their beloved country or move elsewhere. Or would you rather have family suicides committed because things don’t exactly turn out the way you want them to? Is that quality family time in your opinion?