im tall , heavy but curvy, towards sexy but i believe brides look better when they are thin, do designers so chubby girls too'?
Hun as long as you are willing to pay the designers, they'll do anything. They'll be customizing the outfit. Yeah they might charge you a bit more stating "kapra ziada lag raha hai" but they will do the job. Also I have seen many brides on the chubby side who looked equally cute as some other thinner brides I have seen. Note not all thin brides look nice either. At the same time the fact that the girl is becoming a bride. She glows no matter what :)
mermaid style isnt a bad option but i am lucky tat these we have long shirts and lehnga in fashion.. with full sleeves.. i dont know if i shd cover more or wear half sleeves.. i m little confused
Do NOT go for mermaid its gonna make you look even bigger. The sleeve part. You would know better what to decide. Do you usually cover your arms because they are a little big or you wear short sleeves as well. Not all women who are chubby have big arms. Since you mentioned you are tall you might actually have long beautiful arms. As PS mentioned you could do shorter sleeves just above the elbow & fill your arms with bangles.
Another tip. Get a size larger than your actual bangle size. They make your hands look tad bit skinnier.
Also I am not digging the darker shades idea. It works fine for every day clothes but as a bride. Color like maroon esp is going to make you look older with all the makeup that goes on with a bridal outfit. Girls who are taller & chubbier at the same time always look a little older than their actual age. I don't think you as a bride would want that.
Choose your outfit color wisely. Your mom or sister might be the best person to guide you there since they see you everyday in different colors & would know what color suits you best.