chronic disaffection

Lifestyle Relationships
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what causes this in a relationship?

how forgiveable are these little thing? but just how much they do damage a strength that may not have been established yet: unreturned phone call, sudden forgetfulness about calling back, a serious mater of fact email or an unreplied email communication.

what sign does it send?
who reconnects and why?
why one side trys to but the other does not?
& does it lead to a sense of chronic disaffection in ownself and/or coming from the other person’s behaviors?

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Re: chronic disaffection

Disaffection? Girl, I haven't heard that in a long time, hah!

  1. It sends the sign that you aren't a priority to that person.
  2. Usually the "offender," has to apologize or the "victim," has to address the issue first, and demand the apology.

  3. Whichever side realizes the problem and is motivated enough to rectify it.

  4. Perhaps. If it's common place a person could be affected by it. Being isolated and lonely usually isn't a good thing, unless you're a hermit!

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Re: chronic disaffection

yes right,it usually means that you aren't a priority to that person,and that relationship has lost its charm.and the one who actually cares usually reconnects.and if the other side does not try to reconnect,then that would mean that person doesn't really care or is not fully committed to the relationship..

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I agree with the last two posts.

Ignore that person,and move on.

Timepass- May 2012
Timepass- May 2012