You make it sound so depressing that having a child is almost the end of the world. Im sure if your hubby supports you there wont be the need to deal with crap as long as you two are on the same page
As for OP, i wouldnt rule kids out completley. I would always say even if i have one child that would be enough! It seems uneasy for me to think i have no family of my own, but again its your choice if its something youre both happy with go with the flow, as a few people said when you get to your mid 30’s you may think about it more
as long as you two are on the same page