I think I'll ask my patents and inlaws to suggest names specially so they feel they are part of the process and u never know, they might suggest something great. However, as far as a females name is concerned I've already got it and will be using it.
That's what we did. We didn't give anyone the right to "choose" the baby name. But we asked everyone for suggestions of names/meaning. Then we chose the name which we both like. This time around I am adamant that I alone will choose the name :)