Kya?! 
Bhaijaan, … i had my head screwed on too tightly to partake in such juvenile activities:barbie:… i was too busy trying to climb over the prison like fences to escape the bourgeoisie environment that my school became… i started climbing young 
i believe this is where communication with your children is vital. In this day and age, parents rarely have any form of communication with their children, as in today’s economic climate, it has become somewhat vital for both parents to work, and long hours at that.. The times where parents would have conversations over the dinner table have become obsolete, as everyone enters the household at a different time, they all eat individually at different times… everyone is so busy doing their own thing…your children could be engaging in any sordid activity and you wouldn’t have a clue…
Even though my daughters are extremly young, my husband still ensures that he returns from work (on most days) at a reasonable time to read them a bedtime story and have a chat with them, we try to eat together in the dining room where there is no tv…it is vital to establish these settings where children have the opportunity to express themselves, and you have the time to interrogate them .. 