Chipko Mian

Salaam All. Im writing for a friend of mine. Couple has been married three years..both about 30 no children yet. The lady moved from another state to the tristate area after shaadi. The inlaws are extreeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeemmmmmely orthodox and thus the couple lives with them. There are two other brohters and a new bride aside from this couple and the parents.

My friend is the eldest bahoo and therefore much of the dekh bhaal of the family replies on her huby’s shoulders (nothig financial just physical and emotional). He is sooo busy with everything that she feels neglected.

here is an excerpt from one our conversations:
maria,
I have to do something with my life. mai pagal ho jaoon gee, *******
refuses to do anything on the weekend so I am sick of meeting people and
going to their houses and just being a maid around the house.

mai kiya karoooooooon

I am seriously thinking of getting a weekend job.

seriously!!!.

uff mai pagal ho jaoon gee. we had yet another argument over this

I just cannot help my self mai intezar kartay kartay thak gayai maria

Now this darling of a gal is in pain and I feel for her..but I dont know what to tell her.. ..HELP!!!

shadi say pehlay sochti naa. She knew she was getting married into a traditional family. Now suffer.

Fungu.. stop being mean.. I expected a better reply from you. :mad:

and maybe she didnt know that was the case.
Anyone else in a similar situation. Please share thoughts.

I don't think girls who give in to arranged marriages deserve any rights afterwards. Just try to live out the rest of your life in an arranged manner.

dont ASSume... it was a love marriage. :P

Muniya chek ur PM