Re: Children
im not denying that that there maybe some cases when children lie about abuse, but some of the children i have worked with, the parents didnt even know about the abuse, some refused to believe it, it was too embarrasing for them and some were the abusers.
The way in which child abusers work is very very manipualative, a child who has been subjected to this kind of abuse wouldn't know where the truth beigns and the lie ends and vice versa...i dont even know if this makes sense.
But basically, imagine being 5/6/7/8 years old, your dads/mums best mate (whatever) is sexually abusing you, your dad/mum care for this person a great deal, know this as this person is alwyas at you house ...(im nto good at painting pictures, so please read between the lines) you cant say anything, the abuser uses psychological manipulative language, actions, whatever abusers do to make you believe what they are doing is right....how clear is your head going to be about what is right/wrong....true/false?