children of men
I saw "children of men" on saturday.
so the movie wasnt all that....but the main plot of the movie was pretty disturbing. women losing their ability to give birth. and the world ruled by chaos, pollution, fear and terrorism. a future that MUST be avoided at any cost.
It got me thinking....as of today, in America, more and more women are opting to not get married or if they do...not have many kids. kids are a burden...an expense. I read an article in msn which stated more than 50% of women remain unmarried/alone in the US. women all over the world are becoming more independent, more individualistic....and rely much less on men and collective thinking of the society to dictate their lives. Thus the trend is to
a) get married at later stages in life
b) having kids at later stages in life....due to reasons such as independence, expenses, career etc etc
c) it is much easier to get an abortion done today
couple that with other factors in our lives today.....we consume diets loaded with chemicals whose long term effects are not clear as of yet....many of which are claimed by experts to cause infertility in women.....from the lotions we use on our faces to our makeup and our foods. we are a nation that is so busy and so caught up with day to day life that we seldom stop and ponder of the effects of the lunch we grabbed rushing to the train on our body....or research on the chemicals contained in the products we use.
Not to forget another major factor.....pollution. if it isnt going in our bodies through our food or the pores on our skin...we're most probably inhaling it.
so.....would we be surprised if such a monstrous future awaits us?
it seems as if this shift from the view of marriage and family as an institution, to one of marriage as an afterthought to career and fulfillment of individual desires, is a factor. but events do not take place in steps....it is never a case of "such and such happened because of such and such" but things are in a constant flow. random things give rise to other random things. women (or men) did not just wake up one day and decide "hey to hell with having kids or getting married....we wanna make money and do what we really wanna do...go rock climbing" No.....its a VERY gradual process that has shaped the way people think and what people would have thought of as improbable and even absurd some years ago is looked upon as probable and obvious today. many factors and events have gone into making this society more individualistic. so you can hold that finger pointing at "the wicked west".
However....at the same time I am not a proponent of humans acting like sheep, relying too much on group-think and collective wisdom and the braindead ways of the vulgus mobile. But.....I DO realize that what set humans apart from the rest of the species on this planet and was directly responsible for their evolution into a highly successful species was the presence of "culture".....the point at which the female realized she needed ONE male to protect her young and thus monogamy became our thing, developing language for effective communication, building of tools and so on and so forth. so yes culture and society and appreciating marriage and family as an institution is imperative for the success of humans as a species.
On the flipside...culture, society and religions have also led humans to doom. through unneccessary wars and injustices. by telling them what is "right" for them when in fact it is not. money and power will only take a society so far....it is ultimately "culture" that will deem its success in my opinion.
The conclusion is that humans as a whole do need to realize the importance of society and the institutions of marriage and family. We need to realize this great responsibility we shoulder as a successful species. As spidey-man said "with great power comes great responsibility". It is also our responsibility to take care of our mother earth, as well as to engage and excel in art and all things that will give rise to a more complex human being. dont live to make money, eat, **** and die.....but live to the full potential of a human being that is a social being that CARES. I feel first comes individuality....learning to break free of the shackles of culture and society that inhibit our free-thought....and then .....even further SHOULD come a stage where the individual can learn to live again...in a society...but THIS time...they know how to balance their individuality and their society so as to cancel out the negatives of each and so that the Human is successful in the true sense of the word.