If I know how my kids behave in public as children, I would not take them to a wedding where I know they will cause trouble, because that is just embarrassing. A person does not get married over and over again. It’s a one time thing and needs to be perfect ( as I am a girl) Also, it all comes down to how you train your kids. If someone sends me a Mr and Mrs invite, I would not mind at all. But then again, this is a personal preference,