Children/kids at wedding ughh

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I dont take my kids to desi weddings in general. They don’t enjoy it’s, stuff runs way too late so I would rather have them be home with a baby sitter watching movies and going to bed at a decent hour.

But I can understand the mess that some kids can make. Shadi, eid, community mela you see the ones going wild and destroying everything in their path with parents oblivious, unwilling or unable to do anything.

The thing is you will offend some ppl., some will be offended that you want their kids in the kid section with sitters and games. You know what, You may want to rather offend some ppl and have a great time than accommodate everyone’s preferences and not have a good day.

^ This!

99.9 % weddings in our community don’t even serve dinner until well past 10:00 pm…after all the speeches, skits, stage rasms and other nonsense lol…by then my kids are a cranky mess. I’d much rather leave them at home with a babysitter. Mr and Mrs only invites don’t offend me. If I can line up child care, I go..if not, I don’t.