children equal for parents?

my dad just shouted at me for 10 mins like crazy and said u have made my life hell but my other children are not like you. he said when i tell you once not to do something you dont listen, he said learn from your mistakes because it will be a problem for you later on. He couldve explained calmly instead of shouting like mad with junoon.

does he hate me or does he just care for me?

and when he compared me with my sisters and brothers, did he actually mean that im not as good as them

or is he just shouting at me cuz he loves me and doesnt want my life to be difficult for me?

but the thing is that when my siblings do something stupid he never ever shouts at them to the extent he shouted at me or talked to them with anger like he did with me.

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He loves you and cares about you :)

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isn't it time for a 'self-evaluation'! :D

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How old are you?

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Doesn't matter. They are getting old. Our time with our parents is very short. Just forgive them and move on.

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I’d not waste my 10 min shouting on anyone I do not love and care about.

:chai:

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He loves you and cares about you :) My dad shouted at me today for 10 mins because he wants me to be the best I can be.

Arent you married though??

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He loves you and gives you value therefore scolded you. and if you are also feeling his daant (which you are surely therefore you posted here), its mean you also consider his value in your life. just go with flow and ask forgiveness and let him know that you will not going to disappoint him in future.

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He doesnt like you. Ask yourself how much you must dislike someone to shout like this?

Your siblings are not as dheet as you, hence they do not get a 10 min full blown full volume lecture.

:rolleyes: