child being away from mother vs father

so… if a child is separated (for whatever reasons) from mother…is it necessarily worse than being separated from teh father??

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Both parents provide different forms of love, support, care, comfort, and security. And each mother and father is different. I think it is silly to make these sorts of comparisons.

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divorce lawyers of the forum speak up before diwana gets confused by google again.

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I think both parents have an equally important role in the upbringing of the child - neither should be deprived of their child or their child of them.

Its unfair when women brain wash their kids into thinking their fathers are evil for their own personal motives. Its equally horrible when a man does it.

I don’t think its fair to compare them like that.

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I agree......it does look silly when you 'compare' the both.............. but i come across the disparity when the topics are being discussed separately..... i.e discussion on father taking custody and discussions on mother taking custody...

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I was actually going to open a thread to educate people on this forum on how custody actually works in the legal world, but then I couldn't be bothered.

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The issues comes in when one parent takes away the rights of the other parent.

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Unfortunately, with certain people, I don't think it will make a difference. They will justify their views using culture/religion regardless of being told what the reality is in the legal world.

^ Agreed.

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well i can see your dilemma - you can write pages on the legal nuances of the custody process, but it is all trumped by the "but i saved my kids from being kafirs" argument of ann coulter's phd thesis.

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For some people "nuances" of any sort are really scary.

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Well then kid should be given to
mother with the money...
OR
father with GF(next wife)

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who should raise the child....real mother? step mother or phuppos waighara?
if only a man can decide ^ before having sex. ...