Re: Child adoption ..
You women are such amazing women in my opinion for considering to adopt a child. Even if it is just a thought and option right now. I find our desi culture tends to be against it in general… which is unfortunate in my opinion 
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InshAllah I hope to adopt one day. I have spoken to it with my fiance and he understands and respects this desire. I can’t imagine doing a better deed… giving a child a home.
When the time comes, and we are all around still on gupshup… i will be asking u two for more thoughts on the matter and advice.
Best of luck to you both on figuring things out and may Allah reward u So so much if you decide to adopt. 