Chicks or Chicos

Lois_Lane · February 12, 2009, 8:03pm

who is more romantic

and what if a guy is more romantic than a girl, how does girl accomodate with that?
same question for guys.

S08 · February 12, 2009, 8:07pm

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chicos

aahmed · February 12, 2009, 8:20pm

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if a guy is more romantic than the girl, he's very very gay...

Lois_Lane · February 12, 2009, 8:21pm

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^ or maybe he loves her too much

mAd_ScIeNtIsT · February 12, 2009, 9:05pm

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No, he's gay

Monk · February 12, 2009, 9:18pm

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mad and ahm just SHUT UP

my little brother was like that.But also happen to have 200 indian cd(songs) and dvds(movies)
Do you see the connection??
Later he had issue her (then) fiancée not being romantic to him. And he wanted to break up.
I kicked his A$# thoroughly. Telling him life is not an indain movie, girl can't be romantic in front of every one.
Mashallah they are happy couple now. But then he drove me crazy, I actually wanted to hit him.
(Never hit before)

Jaanwar · February 12, 2009, 9:32pm

Couldnt have said it better :k:

Bonbonniere · February 12, 2009, 9:35pm

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I think its nice when the guy is romantic! In fact, its sweet and should be appreciated, lol.

Niksik · February 12, 2009, 10:01pm

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Love doesn't have to do anything with being romantic...not that those who are romantic don't love. The point is, most women are more expressive about their romanticism. And we expect more display from the men but sooner or later you will find out that peace and harmony comes when you can understand each others "hot" buttons. For instance, if my husband were to bring me a dozen red roses on my birthday and anniversary...I wouldn't appreciate it from deep within, the gesture yes, but a bar of chocolate would definitely be more appealing. Similarly, if I prepared 12 dishes for my husband rather than sit with him and spend some time, my cooking effort may not rub him the right way because he isn't a food fanatic for he needs just one well cooked dish on the table, but time is more important for him.

For me, being romantic is understanding what your spouse wants from you and targeting your efforts in that direction instead of wasting your time in expectations that cannot be fulfilled.

OK, that's not the answer Lois wanted. I know.

Jaanwar · February 12, 2009, 10:07pm

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Nicely explained Nik :k:

TLK · February 12, 2009, 10:27pm

Guys are more romantic before marriage, girls are more romantic after …

Sara516 · February 13, 2009, 2:16am

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^ I htink thats true. :D

TLK · February 13, 2009, 2:19am

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hahaha ... thanks for the endorsement sara :D

Niksik · February 13, 2009, 5:11am

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haha :D

RupayHalwa · February 13, 2009, 11:43am

Niksik:

Love doesn’t have to do anything with being romantic…not that those who are romantic don’t love. The point is, most women are more expressive about their romanticism. And we expect more display from the men but sooner or later you will find out that peace and harmony comes when you can understand each others “hot” buttons. For instance, if my husband were to bring me a dozen red roses on my birthday and anniversary…I wouldn’t appreciate it from deep within, the gesture yes, but a bar of chocolate would definitely be more appealing. Similarly, if I prepared 12 dishes for my husband rather than sit with him and spend some time, my cooking effort may not rub him the right way because he isn’t a food fanatic for he needs just one well cooked dish on the table, but time is more important for him.

For me, being romantic is understanding what your spouse wants from you and targeting your efforts in that direction instead of wasting your time in expectations that cannot be fulfilled.

OK, that’s not the answer Lois wanted. I know.

Yes, when your husband brings home a bar of chocolate for you out of the blue cos he thought u would like it, its luuuuuuurve!

aahmed · February 13, 2009, 1:18pm

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The most romantic thing I do for my wife is allow her to eat with me, otherwise she is not allowed in my presence when I eat.

desigirl786 · February 14, 2009, 3:40am

saieen · February 14, 2009, 4:37am

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what is romance? dimaghi-kharabi...

_Iraj · February 16, 2009, 8:34pm

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some guys are more romantic than gals. or maybe time changes. i have become more serious wid time.
and less romantic.

but its not difficult either ways

Coca_Cola · February 16, 2009, 8:39pm

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I think guys are way more romantic then the chics. It's a mans nature to impress woman - on the other hand the woman accepts everything with pleasure :)