~*Ch'herna bhi nahin*~, ~*Ch'horna bhi nahin*~

Lifestyle Relationships
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Both partners in a couple have individual bad habbits and flaws that they themself might not be aware of.

Not easy to leave one’s responsibilty of a sincere opinion (advice), and overdoing it might lead to frustration for a partner.

Would you want to delay your advice to the time when someone else embarrasses him/her by pointing out the bad habbit ? As they say " The cruelest lies are told in silence".

Or would you feel that this would give an impression that you are very picky about his/her faults. You point one finger at others and three of your own fingers are pointing at yourself.

What wisdom would you adopt to maintain a balance ?

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Re: ~Ch'herna bhi nahin~, ~Ch'horna bhi nahin~

I think couples should have such a relationship where they can tell each other and advice each other on their bad habbits. Ofcourse it has to be done in the right way but i dont see why there shud be such a formality where you have to hold back on such things.