Why do some people not understand when someone is brushing them off? Do they have no self-respect, or respect for others?
Re: cheechar
maybe they are stupid like me and cant understand kabh beizzati horahi hai unki:)
Re: cheechar
You're not stupid. Now you're making me feel bad Aisha.
Re: cheechar
well cat woman i have been through this when bulbuli and others made fun of me and called my friends chamchay if i had not been stupid that would never have happened:)
so i am stupid and i should have realized it and not allow people to make a mockery out of me but i have learnt as well:)
Re: cheechar
Why do some people not understand when someone is brushing them off? Do they have no self-respect, or respect for others?
i know somone like that... they impose upon ppl so much that ppl drop everything and bolt in the other direction! no one really likes them but they couldn't care less! like u said: no self respect!
Re: cheechar
^someone like me innit?:)
Re: cheechar
^someone like me innit?:)
No Aisha, I didn't mean you! I havn't been on the forum as long as most of the other ppl here, but u seem really nice.... i was not referring to you at all, ok! :)
Re: cheechar
^thank you 
i am a mahir at changing people’s opinions about me and i am nice:wink:
Re: cheechar
Why do some people not understand when someone is brushing them off? Do they have no self-respect, or respect for others?
TV has made Some to beleive that persistence works.
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Re: cheechar
I think the spelling should be CHICHAR (like they say in Punjabi).
Re: cheechar
Why do some people not understand when someone is brushing them off? Do they have no self-respect, or respect for others?
MAybe cuz they have an agenda of exploiting other ppl and dont care whether they are being rejected or ignored. As long as they can exploit others they are happy...have known quiet a few ppl like that!
Re: cheechar
Oh! Come on! Let's not jump to negative conclusions here. Most of the time, these chichars are people who are not confident in their abilities. They need support from other people. Your little help can produce wonders.
Re: cheechar
Why do some people not understand when someone is brushing them off? Do they have no self-respect, or respect for others?
Also they may be suffering from what is said to be "over dependence"...low self esteem issues
Re: cheechar
Icono, you may be right 
Well this particular type of ‘chichar’ (as witchdr pointed out) applies to desperate people of the male variety. 
Re: cheechar
I think the spelling should be CHICHAR (like they say in Punjabi).
I think its "Lichar"
Re: cheechar
I think its "Lichar"
Well! Isn't it amazing, on GS we learn something new everyday.
BUT, I think Chichar can be used as well, because chichar is a pest of animals like dogs, cows, cats, etc.
Re: cheechar
You mean manipulating?
no i mean once they get to know the real me they know i am a sweet girl:)