Cheating

Mirch · January 29, 2010, 8:55pm

Mine is a love cum arranged marriage. Shukar Alhumdulillah I got married to someone I loved. So I have no idea how it feels if you cannot marry one you love.
But they way you have described the situation and think that he is cheating , his mom does not want you to get married to him etc. Isn't it time now you move on and let your family and Allah get you married to some , nice decent fellow from a decent family. There are plenty of them out there and Inshallah you will find one , who's family and him will love and take care of you and be proud of you as his wife and as their bahoo.

MixedBeauty · January 29, 2010, 8:57pm

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^ Hun, his mum adores me, thats why im confused. Its him thats being the idiot. His mum and dad say im their daughter already.
Thats why it hurts more :( The parents love me, But the guy i love doesnt.
:(

JimmyKimble · January 29, 2010, 9:09pm

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honey jab koi dump kerta hy to ice-cream khaty heen..
thread naheen kholty

PyariCgudia · January 29, 2010, 9:13pm

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Well, maybe something is going on in his life, and he is distracted - maybe some issue at work or school. Like what if he's facing failing or being laid off...I don't know. If I was in that situaiton, I probably wouldn't want to communicate much with someone else either. You're not his wife at the moment, you know.

My story: I was the OTHER woman, without really knowing it. Maybe that idiot didn't even take me seriously enough to think of me in that way, who knows. All I know, is that some years ago, I spoke to a guppy here for a few months, and we were contemplating meeting and exploring our options, and then I find out he's announcing his marriage on here. Like, seriously? I felt pretty used and fooled, but felt worse for the woman he is now married to , because she has NO CLUE about me.

The dirt bag still posts around here and acts like nothing has happened.

Signs for cheating - I'm sure you can pick up any ladies magazine and you will find dissertations on this topic. I think in that case, I noticed he was very evasive, didn't want me to have his phone number so we could speak in person, didn't want to meet me in a public place, had no interest in meeting my parents, wanted to meet in a hotel (idiot thought I was some moron), just showed a pattern of irresponsibility - saying the right things at the right time so that he could get me right where he wanted me to be, and then bam, I'm hearing his engagement announcement on GS.

I don't know. I'm having real issues taking men seriously after that. They're all a punch of perv balls at the end of the day. How shareef they act with a girl really depends on their motives, more than anything else, and their upbringing. Some can control their inner kutaa-pan, some can't.

In your case, I'd just have an honest heart-to-heart talk with him, lay down your observations, and give him a period of time to make up his mind. Have the conversation alone with him, let his parents know what your opinion is, and then if there is no response within the perscribed time period, you are off the hook to find someone else.

BarbieCue · January 29, 2010, 9:18pm

Jimmy sir hum sub ko ice cream khilayen ge :@:

Mirch · January 29, 2010, 9:25pm

Sorry for the mixup. Dafa karo us ko he is playing hard to get.

kaun · January 29, 2010, 9:31pm

~! Angel eyes is married! :O

Well, maybe something is going on in his life, and he is distracted - maybe some issue at work or school. Like what if he’s facing failing or being laid off…I don’t know. If I was in that situaiton, I probably wouldn’t want to communicate much with someone else either. You’re not his wife at the moment, you know.

My story: I was the OTHER woman, without really knowing it. Maybe that idiot didn’t even take me seriously enough to think of me in that way, who knows. All I know, is that some years ago, I spoke to a guppy here for a few months, and we were contemplating meeting and exploring our options, and then I find out he’s announcing his marriage on here. Like, seriously? I felt pretty used and fooled, but felt worse for the woman he is now married to , because she has NO CLUE about me.

The dirt bag still posts around here and acts like nothing has happened.

Signs for cheating - I’m sure you can pick up any ladies magazine and you will find dissertations on this topic. I think in that case, I noticed he was very evasive, didn’t want me to have his phone number so we could speak in person, didn’t want to meet me in a public place, had no interest in meeting my parents, wanted to meet in a hotel (idiot thought I was some moron), just showed a pattern of irresponsibility - saying the right things at the right time so that he could get me right where he wanted me to be, and then bam, I’m hearing his engagement announcement on GS.

I don’t know. I’m having real issues taking men seriously after that. They’re all a punch of perv balls at the end of the day. How shareef they act with a girl really depends on their motives, more than anything else, and their upbringing. Some can control their inner kutaa-pan, some can’t.

In your case, I’d just have an honest heart-to-heart talk with him, lay down your observations, and give him a period of time to make up his mind. Have the conversation alone with him, let his parents know what your opinion is, and then if there is no response within the perscribed time period, you are off the hook to find someone else.

wow that low life, PCG as a friend ek baat kahoonga, online relationship have their pros and cons and to be honest i do not blame you to be hesitant and critical of every guy here cuz woh kehtay hain naa “ek machlee pooray taalaab ko ganda kar detee hai”. I fully understand where you are coming from and to be honest that scumbag should have known better but unfortunately ppl do take advantage of the online veil that everyone wheres around here lekin then ppl also say “paanchon ungliyaan barabar nahi hoteen” so all i would say is goodluck aur Allah aapko khush rakhey, stop being upset at the world and get outta that BS. I am sure aap ek achi larkee hain aur InshaAllah things will get better and you will be happy , Aameen.

JimmyKimble · January 29, 2010, 9:33pm

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Jimmy sir hum sub ko ice cream khilayen ge :@:
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aap bhi dump huee heen taza tazA ?

MixedBeauty · January 29, 2010, 9:45pm

PyariCgudia:

Well, maybe something is going on in his life, and he is distracted - maybe some issue at work or school. Like what if he's facing failing or being laid off...I don't know. If I was in that situaiton, I probably wouldn't want to communicate much with someone else either. You're not his wife at the moment, you know.

My story: I was the OTHER woman, without really knowing it. Maybe that idiot didn't even take me seriously enough to think of me in that way, who knows. All I know, is that some years ago, I spoke to a guppy here for a few months, and we were contemplating meeting and exploring our options, and then I find out he's announcing his marriage on here. Like, seriously? I felt pretty used and fooled, but felt worse for the woman he is now married to , because she has NO CLUE about me.

The dirt bag still posts around here and acts like nothing has happened.

Signs for cheating - I'm sure you can pick up any ladies magazine and you will find dissertations on this topic. I think in that case, I noticed he was very evasive, didn't want me to have his phone number so we could speak in person, didn't want to meet me in a public place, had no interest in meeting my parents, wanted to meet in a hotel (idiot thought I was some moron), just showed a pattern of irresponsibility - saying the right things at the right time so that he could get me right where he wanted me to be, and then bam, I'm hearing his engagement announcement on GS.

I don't know. I'm having real issues taking men seriously after that. They're all a punch of perv balls at the end of the day. How shareef they act with a girl really depends on their motives, more than anything else, and their upbringing. Some can control their inner kutaa-pan, some can't.

In your case, I'd just have an honest heart-to-heart talk with him, lay down your observations, and give him a period of time to make up his mind. Have the conversation alone with him, let his parents know what your opinion is, and then if there is no response within the perscribed time period, you are off the hook to find someone else.

Pcg, I completly get where your coming from when you say you cant trust another guy. But look look on the bright side, you was in the know, whilst his poor wife doesnt have a clue.
And thats what i cant handle, Not being in the know.

BarbieCue · January 29, 2010, 9:48pm

Yuckk! No way!!

I’m a one-man woman

JimmyKimble · January 29, 2010, 9:49pm

they dont exist any more :hinna:
only after marriage.

BarbieCue · January 29, 2010, 9:51pm

JimmyKimble · January 29, 2010, 9:53pm

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I know ehh

BarbieCue · January 29, 2010, 9:56pm

ok now I definitely want an ice cream!

JimmyKimble · January 29, 2010, 10:00pm

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hug & daz ka coffee favour mil sakta hy itny short notice per.

Sara516 · January 29, 2010, 10:34pm

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Mixed, I dont know whether he's cheating or not, but he doesnt seem like a trustworthy or reliable person (if hes always going hot or cold on you). Move on and wait for Mr. Right.

JimmyKimble · January 30, 2010, 3:18am

PS: I thought we were pigs?

kakaballi · January 30, 2010, 3:22am

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For reference of those who thought it was ‘love’…

http://www.paklinks.com/gs/life-relationships/392240-women-entertainment.html

JimmyKimble · January 30, 2010, 3:23am

honey you have genuine question so here is the answer.

He could be the person who treat women nicely. He treated you the way he would have treated women of his own family. With kindness care and respect.

When he thought its wont work he backed off. Unlike what PCG believes in, there are men out their who treat their women like queens.

bigdaddy · January 30, 2010, 6:13am

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Call the guys from cheaters. Now this one is hilarious.