Re: Cheating...Hypothetical question...
I agree with Sabriya...although it does depend on circumstances...if they continuously did it...its not a simple mistake...its a flaw and id leave them straight...
Confucius...
If i was married and my partner loved someone else that would kill me...and it would end the marriage a whole lot quicker than if they made a mistake...
I could forgive physical cheating maybe cos i do believe in lapses and believe people can make mistakes...i also believe that when people make mistakes they can begin to understand what they could lose...i dont subscribe to the whole once a cheater always a cheater thing...life isnt always that simple...
What i couldnt face is someone who is with me but doesnt want to be with me...they dont have that emotional attachment with me which is supposed to be the main component of the relationship...they have that emotional bond with someone else...by cheating physically that bond wont neccesarily break cos you may still believe your partner loves you...what when you know your partner has no feelings for you...could you honestly stay just so you can say hes a good person...
Id take a girl who cares but is flawed over someone who doesnt care...
And as a general point if i had to leave one id much rather leave the one that cheated on me cos atleast its their fault it ended...