Often we hear these incidents about how girls/women get tricked by charmers and casanovas or the dreaded loverboys. These very charming men use their good looks and sweet talks to make women fall in love with them and then they use them.
However the thing is, these so called casanovas are far from goodlooking, they all look like creeps and they behave like creeps
Now I know some of the girls who fall in their trap are girls with insecurity problems or/and home issues, so they fall for the attention they get. But attention is not the main concern here.
What I wonder is, what do women see in these men (apart from the attention they get)? How do these men manage to trap so many girls?
I was watching a documentary on where this prisoner āseducedā a female security guard and āmadeā her escape him from jail and even kill someone. Now this guy was definitely looking like a scary creep you would avoid. But apparently women used to fall for him and do everything (even a murder) he said.
Femme fatales actually look good in real life too.
Charmers are only goodlooking in movies and dramaseries. On the news they show images sometimes of a gang of loverboys etc who exploited women, and when you see them you just think WHAT?!
Women are less concerned with looks than men. They still notice, and obviously care, but if a good looking guy is a total bimbo, he won't get far with most women. These ugly charmers that you refer to may not have that initial attraction, but given enough time, the looks become irrelevant.
If a man is confident, humourous, cares for her (or pretends to), etc, women will usually look past the physical appearance.
^ I didnt say they are ugly. I said they are creepy and scary looking. Neither are they charming. It is more cheesyness and cheapness. And still they get girls crazy. I really don't get it.
Hey there, Le Pakistan (Kya loon?) I was once accused to be a casanova by a bhai of a certain behen. That so doesnāt make me no ugly. Because technically you see, thats the only thing the girl eventually fell for.
For a heads up. Theyāre as creepy and scary as you are in the morning mirror you drag yourself on to.
Diwana - if the woman is turned on by reality defying debates
EDAL - if the woman is turned on by physical and mental harassment
Yeaa...but only if any of them had actually charmed any women and to my knowledge none of them have. So, we don't have any successful casanovas on GS fortunately.
Yeaa...but only if any of them had actually charmed any women and to my knowledge none of them have. So, we don't have any successful casanovas on GS fortunately.
But...I thought Diwana got PCG. Don't tell me that was a lie! They were like Charles and Lady Di to me!
well i believe that loverboys are like any other boys but
what makes them different is whats going in their mind.
i don't know wether its something genetic, i doubt its something genetic
i think its something phychological and these " creeps" or
i would say CROOKS or CRIMINALS are out to have fun and EXPLOIT
someone who is weakwilled and mentally not that strong and has low self esteem.
the thing is that when women fall in love with LOVERBOY they do not think that they are
dealing with a loverboy or they do not analyse him because love is love
when someone falls in love it happens bc they develop feelings for someone its nothing to do with
RATIONALE. Love is totally irrational i think where heart, emotions and feelings take over the brain.
I know it sounds wierd but look at it this way, in my line of Work we used to get hundreds of cases of girls getting into trouble becuase they thought such and such a "Goth", "Emo", "Rocker", "REbel" "Vampire" bla bal you get the picture...
Sometimes its the total creeps who get all the press for girls.
Hell thank goodness I dont have to deal with anymore cases of run-away teenage wannabe vampires or anarchistic gangsters... oh wait you cant really avoid them even in Suburbia....
well i believe that loverboys are like any other boys but
what makes them different is whats going in their mind.
i don't know wether its something genetic, i doubt its something genetic
i think its something phychological and these " creeps" or
i would say CROOKS or CRIMINALS are out to have fun and EXPLOIT
someone who is weakwilled and mentally not that strong and has low self esteem.
the thing is that when women fall in love with LOVERBOY they do not think that they are
dealing with a loverboy or they do not analyse him because love is love
when someone falls in love it happens bc they develop feelings for someone its nothing to do with
RATIONALE. Love is totally irrational i think where heart, emotions and feelings take over the brain.
Loverboys are criminals yes, casanovas are not (per se).
I dont think these girsl are in love with them. They just liked the attention and got used to it. How can you love someone who forces you into prostitution and abuses you.
