Write good character traits you have. Write only one in each post.
I'll start.
The ability to break down and explain in simple terms when I see someone is unable to understand something.
Tough question. I'm trying to find one lol
It was tough for me too when I tried to do the exercise for the first time. I had to find 3 not one ![]()
Think about it and you’ll start finding good traits you have.
It's like during a job interview when you're supposed to name 3 positive qualities. It's hard to come up with 1, let alone 3. So I always start with the negative ones, because I can come up with those very easily along with examples for each. It surprises people. If it makes me come across as humble when that's not my aim, even better.
Is it worrying that I can't name a positive trait?
I'm a narcissist, I know its not exactly a 'good character trait', but it comes with a few positives, for example, I'm never afraid of expressing an opinion, never shy of speaking in a crowd or taking control of a given situation, I can be overconfident at times too. Off course being so full of myself is not something most people like, but i try to package it as an expression of self-confidence, sometime it works, sometimes not.
AH YES! I Used to have them TRAITS But after one reaches the Age of THRAITH…
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Them TRAITS Tend to be Past HISTORY!…
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So why WORRY……
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Help me understand your post.
Being able to express your opinion or taking control of a situation isn’t narcissism. Why do you think it’s because of your narcissistic tendencies?
Being full of yourself and self confidence come from different places within us.
What exactly do you mean when you say that you package ‘being full of yourself as an expression of self confidence’ ?
Most of us can’t name a positive trait easily because that’s how we grew up so don’t worry. We usually even second guess the compliments we get ![]()
Try to think of some positive traits. Ask your loved ones, they might be able to help.
We did this as a group of cousins and others helped name the positive traits. It helps us see the good in ourselves instead of the usual negative self talk we do with ourselves.
When you find the positives, let us know too ![]()
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You’re a narcissist? -____- As in you meet the criteria for Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) listed in the DSM? There is nothing “positive” about a narc or for those involved with a narc, you’re talking about tendencies which we all have to varying degrees. However being so full of yourself is indeed annoying, I used to know some people like that. Yikes.
I am a forgiving person.
Jis jis ne mujhse maafi maangni hai aa kar maang lo.
Asking others to name the good things about me seems even more horrible than trying to do it myself. Especially if they would stumble finding a good trait or mention a trait but your ego is deep down disappointed or not satisfied.
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I am a forgiving person.
Jis jis ne mujhse maafi maangni hai aa kar maang lo.
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That’s an amazing trait.
at the last sentence
Well then, keep thinking. You’ll come up with something.
I am very nurturing and giving, it used to upset me when people took my giving nature for granted or did not reciprocate but I have matured to understand that I give because it makes me feel good and not because I expect anything in return.
That’s a great trait.
I'll add another one.
I'm reliable.
I am very strong willed but not stuborn as an example just lost 35lbs in around 4 months.

