Changing one's identity to make oneself *admirable* for a gathering ?

Re: Changing one's identity to make oneself admirable for a gathering ?

I know that people can do all four of those things and the first one bothers me the most ...but then when i think of it deeply i realize atleast the girl who wears a scarf regularyly but not at a wedding is better then me ...someone who dont wear a scarf at al....