Changing for marriage

[Theorist]

Re: Changing for marriage

@GlobalGal

Are you happy though? Because you changed your whole self, shut out people and you’ve totally closed yourself up…all of that will eventually cause some sort of health problems or depression. Take care of yourself.

I have already been sick a few times. I don’t blame anyone for my identity crisis or anything I go through. Everything that has happened, happened because I allowed it to happen. Marriage is hard work especially for someone like me who thinks very differently than most people about culture, religion, and gender roles. I don’t do well with confrontations and family feuds. I hate conflicts, I would rather pull away than engage.