Changing for marriage

[GlobalGal]

Re: Changing for marriage

@Theorist

My identity for the most part. I have no idea who I am and I am not trying to discover myself or anything. I was very sure of who I was and what I wanted out of life before. I can’t be specific without it becoming too personal to share unfortunately. It is a bunch of sacrifices plus misplaced responsibilities, clash of culture and personalities. The end result of all that is now my world exists inside my head, there is no letting in for anyone. My husband thinks I don’t let him in either. He is probably right. I have been burnt one too many times to care for the relationships like I used to. People come in your life to teach you a lesson.

Are you happy though? Because you changed your whole self, shut out people and you’ve totally closed yourself up…all of that will eventually cause some sort of health problems or depression. Take care of yourself.