Changing for marriage

[Theorist]

Re: Changing for marriage

@GlobalGal

I guess this is a personal question, but of the stuff you don’t mind sharing, what did you change? I don’t know whether I could give up my love for my parents, like if the guy hated my parents and they were really sweet to him, I don’t think i could have it in me to change that about myself for him. Family and visiting family atleast once a year is important to me.

My identity for the most part. I have no idea who I am and I am not trying to discover myself or anything. I was very sure of who I was and what I wanted out of life before. I can’t be specific without it becoming too personal to share unfortunately. It is a bunch of sacrifices plus misplaced responsibilities, clash of culture and personalities. The end result of all that is now my world exists inside my head, there is no letting in for anyone. My husband thinks I don’t let him in either. He is probably right. I have been burnt one too many times to care for the relationships like I used to. People come in your life to teach you a lesson.