As we know, my husband is my mums nephew. he gets along with my mum well. before marriage, he would talk to her, not chatting awya, hes always been a quiet type, but he would still talk abit more, they would sit and talk at times, just generally joking, or even poking fun at me, he would even offer her hand massage if she was in pain, or whateve.r…
now well since marriage talks happened, ( he wanted to marry me, et cetc) he doesnt seem as chatty to her anymore, feels like now the rishta has changed from phupo to MIL hes quietened, he alot morequiet now, barely talks to anyone, ) he hardly did before but feels like its more now, and mum is the one that instigates most convos…
ages ago, i mentioned it to him, he then picked up the phone and rang my mum haal chaal puch liya, but then now again i feel like i need to ask him how comes hes this way.
mum told me when she went back to pak for our marriage, mum stayed 2 days in ther house, and usually in our house here, he used to ask him if she sok, and would offer massage her arm, or something, in his own house ( maybe in front of his own mum) he didnt ask anything.not even as nephew normal question like ru ok…mum at the time was lying down, pain in arm i think…
just feel like he doesnt make enougn of an effort, talking wise, to my family, he doesnt talk much at all. so it makes me want to not talk to his family…although i havent yet done so.
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