Change in spouse's behaviour

Do you find that your spouse changes the way they behave with you when they are aroundn their family?

Is it a favorable change? does it ever cause tension between a couple?

Also i’d like to hear from men…how do their wives behave with them around her parents.

Re: Change in spouse's behaviour

My in laws are always happy to see me and take extra care of me. So I never notices anything different.

Re: Change in spouse’s behaviour

yes, Salman is completely different when we’re alone.

In front of family, he wont say my name — calls me madam… :rolleyes:

wont hug me
I think its to show them respect.

It used to annoy me but now I get enough PDA minus the P so its okay

Re: Change in spouse's behaviour

Iam very lucky in this matter Masha Allah. My in laws are pretty peaceful, infact I am of the opinion that it is up to the husband to define a limit, across which no one is allowed to interfere in personal matters. He does not discuss personal issues of ours with any one and I have not ever noticed any behaviour change when his or my family are around.

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Yes I will be all romantic and stuff.
But when family is around not so romantic.

Re: Change in spouse's behaviour

The story of my life. The moment we moved in with his parents I felt like I was married to a stranger. It took a long time to reconnect again.

Re: Change in spouse's behaviour

not much different.. infact.. more romantic (if its even possible) infront of his folks which i found a bit weird at first but since his family is cool with it.. and dont badmouth bout it .. its all good... my in laws are mashallah very laid back and cool ppl to be around so the husband doesnt feel the need to hide his emotions towards me .. the support, love, care, discussions are always the same infront of parents as they are behind closed doors.