Re: change----difference..
why do people place all the responsibility on the parents.
you dont have to be happy with their perspectives and they dont have to be happy with your choices.
make a decision regardless..knowing that circumstances are not ideal, and not everyone is in agreement.
not all decisions in life are safe and have black and white answers
..pick the guy, piss the folks off ..temporarily or long term
..pass on the guy and be pissed of at your folks for not approving your choice
..find a middle ground..
whatever it is, your decision..thats how the grown up world is.