Re: Chances of getting married again
There are a multitude of things that are "Haram" and totally forbidden that we as muslims do everyday.
Divorce is "allowed" but disliked.
Lets not make the forbidden items somewhat acceptable cause it seems to be cool to do it. And most people do it.
Do we fit into any of these items:
Lying
Drinking
Cheating
Fornication
Backbiting
Not praying
Shirk (dont want to get into details of that here)
But OMG he/she is divorced ? Tattoo that "D" on his forehead and banish him to the farthest corners of this earth !?!
Getting divorced feels pretty bad but all the above kinda feel normal and good so lets label the one thing that feels bad and forget about what Islam says about it.
Remember: "Its allowed, but disliked" NOT haram, NOT prohibited, NOT a Gunnah!
As long as you gave it your best ... thats all that matters. As long as the other partner didnt cross the line that is unforgivable for you.. then so be it.
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