Hi AE , I missed responding to you earlier , when you asked the same bit ...
I see your point ... The term lost it was used in the context of losing a relationship ettiquette and not to imply at all that someone has lost it ....
In post 41 I clarified my stance in a bit more detail. Divorce is something that we tumble upon quite alot these days ... and its very hard to see through individuals who have a genuine reason and those who are just covering up their former actions ...
In almost majority of my posts i mentioned that i am not against those who have a genuine case ... but my strong words are towards those cases where its considered an easy way out ... Please refer to post 41 .. I hope this clarifies it ...
gotcha... thanks for the clarification.
but who is say that someone has a genuine case or not? certainly not you and I.
What may seem like an easy way out to you may not be viewed as such for the couple involved.
CB ..majority of people..especially Muslims do seek divorce as a last resort. No one in their right mind wants to be dragged through hell (ie the divorce process) for the heck of it....most people think through it before jumping the gun and even more so when kids are involved.