Challenging trait

[Mehnaz]

@Rosemarina

Hi people of GS, i need your advice.

My hubby can be a confrontational person at the best of times, i’ve known of this trait for all the years we were friends. In the past i’ve talked to him about this concern and even now sometimes still do. But i can’t seem to get this aggressive style of his when he approaches people who may have said and done wrong.

In some cases, whilst we’ve been out, something as simple as the person ahead of us not leaving the door open knowing well we’re right behind them can cause him to ‘challenge’ the person and speak his mind.

In such situations i’ve sometimes had to apologise to the person and hush my hubby along.

He is a loving husband and means the world to me; i just can’t seem to get this awful trait out of him, i just need some sincere advice from you people as to how i can best tackle this from a different angle.

Sincerely M.

There is a difference between speaking your mind and being aggressive. The latter is nothing to be glorified or proud of.