Re: Chacha ~ Bhateeji
Wah
Good, first you ask an opinion, and if someone tells you some sense. then its judgemental ?
Is is too much asking if someone tells you to show some respect and avoid foul language..
There is no issue of age, if my brother is 2 year older, i still wont share rude jokes.
Anyway, mujhey kia, ju marzi karo. mera kia jata hai 
Re: Chacha ~ Bhateeji
Yeh it was wonderful coz I met him after 14 years and he's so loving.. he can actually only hear out of one ear so partially deaf but hes so funny with it - when we used to talk at 4am in the morning I whispered and he was like - didnt hear a word!! we used to make pakoray at that time..
at 5am - he'd be like - chal utt do wuzu its time for namaz.. and id be like you go first and when he'd come back id be asleep!!!
He forever had his arm around me and when I tried on my wedding dress at home.. he looked at me and went - you look terrible... then he kissed me.. then said - nah I dont like the colour - then he kissed me.. then he'd say - you look ugly.. then he'd kiss me... just his way of saying that I looked really nice.
I miss him :(
Re: Chacha ~ Bhateeji
Code red - is it my fault you're a prude?
I think its sad you cant share a rude joke with your brother whose 2 years older than you - its nothing to do with respect. Its about being comfortable with each other.
Re: Chacha ~ Bhateeji
i used to be very close to my chacho too hehe i think at one time hes the only friend i had (yes i was lonely child) and i did talk to him about guys n stuff hmmm not absolutely ANYTHING though but i remember once we were discussing this girls figure n my mom was like 
u dont talk to ur uncle like that..and its not like i didnt respect him..its just he was easy to talk to
Re: Chacha ~ Bhateeji
Excuse him, he is Wordsworth reincarnated.
As for your relationship with your uncles, it seems a bit dodgy to me.
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LMAO!
Re: Chacha ~ Bhateeji
whatever
Re: Chacha ~ Bhateeji
hmm, I understand how you feel.
I v heard worse things about me. :D
Dont worry about it, ziada pakistani logon ki bohat ghattia our gandi sooch hoti hai :)
Re: Chacha ~ Bhateeji
your right dutch paki. :k:
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eww..this is a creepy thread...
i mean i can talk to my uncle abt girls but sex? hell no...kya zamana aa gaya hai
Re: Chacha ~ Bhateeji
affairs of heart...i can understand. Boyfriends...umm ok you can add that to the basket too. Rude jokes...arite u gotta one hell of a frank relationship with ur 45 year old uncle.
But "sex"....i dont know how u can pull that one. Frankness is good but there always comes a time where u have to draw a line.
Code Red's right....it is a matter of sharam haya.
Re: Chacha ~ Bhateeji
i love the fact i can discuss anything with him... yeh even sex, so talking to someone about sex doesnt make you besharam... I cud talk to a stranger and that wud be ok. But coz the guys related to me.. its besharmi...
its a good job i dont care wot u think ... :)
Re: Chacha ~ Bhateeji
so why put up a thread? if you are fine with what your relationship is? people who dont share your views are entitled to their opinion .
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thats pretty disguting…
Re: Chacha ~ Bhateeji
well, i have similar relation with my chacha and at some point in life with my mamoo.
but discussing these things going bit too far though I am even a guy.
it also depends what you discuss about sex.
having a free, freindly relationship with uncles is mostly exist and its good. to what extent is entirely up to you. as long as you are your uncles feel ok.
but if you dont care about people what they think why you put this up here at the first place.
Re: Chacha ~ Bhateeji
you're entitled to your opinion.. but what I asked was if anyone shares a similar relationship with their uncles/anties. I didnt ask you to slate it.
Theres always the sensitivity issue - Im telling you about a perfectly loving relationship I have with someone... hearing someone say 'disgusting' someone else saying 'besharam' I just think its very insensitive and not at all nice.
I really dont care what any one of you think but if you can be this insensitive then I feel sorry for the 'real' people around you.
Re: Chacha ~ Bhateeji
oh gee thanx for that,the real people appreciate it !
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:thrrrrrrrrrrrrrp:
Re: Chacha ~ Bhateeji
well mem saab i do share a very frank relationship with my mamu.i am 21 and he's 42.we make jokes abt anything at all however that doesnt include sex etc. and yes i am very batameez with him too but then he takes it .i think people here have problems with the kind of relationship you have is that girls dont usualy get so close to them. moms often tell their daughter to "tameez kero and aise bethi wais betho" infront of uncles . its more like chacha-bhateeji relationhip has some restirctions compared to chacha bhateeja.
Re: Chacha ~ Bhateeji
Salaam Mem Saab
I can't talk with my mamoo chacho or other male family about sex things i only talk
with friends about these things and also that rude jokes stuff.
Its good to hear that you can trust and talk with someone.
Nilu.