i ALHUMDULLAH understand urdu very well, but yeah they do have problems in speaking urdu cuz they are fluent in Punjabi
i didnt give me number cuz it costs them Rs. 1 or something to send a text message where as receiving any text message is free for them. their plans are usually pay as u go.
whereas on the other hand i am on a fixed plan. not only it costs me $0.25 per sms but also receiving any of it also cost me $0.15. besides population of my cusouns is not like we are talking about 1 or 2 ppl here. :S
third thing is they never bother to call us.
they keep phones like Rs. 15K-30K something. for them cell phone is a luxury, whereas for me its a Need. i honestly cant afford wasting my time in sending some stupid family Aesopic sms (gossips) that might turn into a flaming family debate “k zobia to iss aunty/uncle/cousin k baarain main yeh khe rahi thee”.
forth i have no interest in reading some bukwas jokes :S
and fifth i honestly didnt like my shareef cousins constantly punching buttons, right after they are done with the fajar prayers. cuz initially i thought 
all of them are in some chakker wakker. but gawdd they all were sending messages to their school friends…honestly Pal Pal ki khabar…like the gals here update their facebook profiles 
…but u see it gave me bad impression about them
cuz honestly even if they have chakker i doubt any guy is that farig damag to hear all that girl crap :s
dont mind it but we gals have loads of crap to share