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[GuardianAngel]

@Desi_BeauTii

I disagree with most of the people here. If your parents are not rewarding you for your good behavoir, grades, etc. You may get used to being treated like this, and may not be able to properly communicate your rights once you get out into the real world. It really hurts to see your parents spending money on other siblings, and relatives over yourself. The fact that your mom promised you a watch and ended up giving it to someone else is a really bad example, unless she had a good reason and that was communicated to you. This is very similar to favoring a male over a female. I’m not saying that you should be treated like a queen, but you should be treated equally.

Talk to your parents calmly rationally. If you ask your dad for something and he says no. Quietly walk away. Wait a few days, in that timeframe show your parents how responsible and mature you are, and they may give in on their own. If they do not wait a week or two and bring it up again.

I like your post (:

lol i don’t want to be a queen nor seen as a brat either to my family. i just want my own reward to boost myself up, otherwise it just seems like these grades are for nothing, really. honestly, my parents make it a habit to gift someone something even better.

i remember once my dad promised me a cell phone (it was my old one that he later gave away when i came to america). it was a motorola phone, sleek and shiny and PROMISED to give it to me only.
i really wanted it too.

guess what happened? he gave it to my older cousin. he just gave me a used phone which didn’t satisfy me fully because it had scratches on it and looked somewhat cheap. i was angry at him for doing that but i was like, oh well, it is better then nothing anyway >.> my mom noticed that too.

the way he gave it to her made me feel like trash. he tricked me. i was upset for days, but he never noticed. of course, he wouldn’t anyway.