aww...i think lisa is right. fist of all i don't think she is, and even if she is then what's wrong with that? the whole point is people's happiness and computability in their life with their spouse. and if they have it then it is so much better than an egotist, self made khuddaar person. not that being a self made is a wrong thing, but if i have choice between both, i would chose being happy over anything. beside, it's america. koi kisi ko, balkay apni aulaad tak ko aisay hi ghar mai rakh kar nahi khilata hai. na hi america mai rehnay wali koi larki itni pagal hoti hai kay kisi baykaar insaan say shadi kar lay, woh bhi itni piyari larki.
wow people! I just expressed my opinion . its not a matter being orthodox. Why do people label others orthodox if one is expressing their opinion close to our social norms. We would love to talk about compatibility and happiness here but in reality we don't accept such of things.. we are adapting gora culture now.phew what an opnion!!