Lissa what do u call them? son living in with inlaws!! hahaha nobody is orthodox. One needs to stand on their own feet rather than looking for some opportunity like ghar damad. Self respect be kuch hote hai???
Are you ghar damad or a wife of a ghar damad???
aww...i think lisa is right. fist of all i don't think she is, and even if she is then what's wrong with that?
the whole point is people's happiness and computability in their life with their spouse. and if they have it then it is so much better than an egotist, self made khuddaar person.
not that being a self made is a wrong thing, but if i have choice between both, i would chose being happy over anything.
beside, it's america. koi kisi ko, balkay apni aulaad tak ko aisay hi ghar mai rakh kar nahi khilata hai. na hi america mai rehnay wali koi larki itni pagal hoti hai kay kisi baykaar insaan say shadi kar lay, woh bhi itni piyari larki.
aww...i think lisa is right. fist of all i don't think she is, and even if she is then what's wrong with that?
the whole point is people's happiness and computability in their life with their spouse. and if they have it then it is so much better than an egotist, self made khuddaar person.
not that being a self made is a wrong thing, but if i have choice between both, i would chose being happy over anything.
beside, it's america. koi kisi ko, balkay apni aulaad tak ko aisay hi ghar mai rakh kar nahi khilata hai. na hi america mai rehnay wali koi larki itni pagal hoti hai kay kisi baykaar insaan say shadi kar lay, woh bhi itni piyari larki.
wow people! I just expressed my opinion . its not a matter being orthodox. Why do people label others orthodox if one is expressing their opinion close to our social norms. We would love to talk about compatibility and happiness here but in reality we don't accept such of things.. we are adapting gora culture now.phew what an opnion!!
Yes. It is perfectly fine they can live wherever they want to. why we still have such orthodox thinking that if the guy moves where the girl is he becomes ghar damad. its the couples decision how they want to live their life. Grow up out of these stupid thinking.
PS: she doesnt look older than him.
it has nothing to with being orthodox or open minded........ its all about self-respect!!! i can't imagine marrying a guy who marries me only coz i have a canadian nationality and I will "sponsor" him to canada. the guys who do that sell their self-respect..... and can't be classified as "MAN" there are some norms of our culture... that will always look best..... doesn't matter in what age and time we are in!! :)
but ya i agree his wife is pretty and doesn't look older then him!!
it has nothing to with being orthodox or open minded........ its all about self-respect!!! i can't imagine marrying a guy who marries me only coz i have a canadian nationality and I will "sponsor" him to canada. the guys who do that sell their self-respect..... and can't be classified as "MAN" there are some norms of our culture... that will always look best..... doesn't matter in what age and time we are in!! :)
but ya i agree his wife is pretty and doesn't look older then him!!
