Caught my Husband Watching Porn For the Past 3 Years

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Re: Caught my Husband Watching Porn For the Past 3 Years

@Peony

I thought “Do not follow one glance with another” meant that if one accidently or by chance notices someone of the opposite sex to not follow that glance up with another. Never took it to mean that it is a man’s nature to stare and most certainly disagree with that sentiment that is man’s nature to stare.

There is most certainly a difference between a glance that falls on a person and staring/ogling a person.

Perhaps a more appropriate hadith to quote would have been this

“Allaah has decreed for every son of Adam his share of zina, which he will inevitably commit. The zina of the eyes is looking, the zina of the tongue is speaking, one may wish and desire, and the private parts confirm that or deny it.”Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5889; Muslim, 2657
Hadith is self expalnatory. So the private parts confirm or deny. Prophet saw is not making it halal but is saying it will happen every man will have his share. What you do to protect and limit yourself is what matters and private parts will cinfirm means u will follow through that desire and commit zina or deny meaning u will fear allah and back off