Caught my Husband Watching Porn For the Past 3 Years

[Peony]

Re: Caught my Husband Watching Porn For the Past 3 Years

@homesick

So yes there is going be some staring no matter how hard you try. And yes what I said about a man’s nature is true. Prophet SAW said do not follow one glance with another. So that first glance is going to be there. That is quite different from the "ogle’ you refer to.

I thought “Do not follow one glance with another” meant that if one accidently or by chance notices someone of the opposite sex to not follow that glance up with another. Never took it to mean that it is a man’s nature to stare and most certainly disagree with that sentiment that is man’s nature to stare.

There is most certainly a difference between a glance that falls on a person and staring/ogling a person.