Re: Caught my Husband Watching Porn For the Past 3 Years
I am not asking anyone to be perfect here. So yes there is going be some staring no matter how hard you try. And yes what I said about a man’s nature is true. Prophet SAW said do not follow one glance with another. So that first glance is going to be there. That is quite different from the "ogle’ you refer to. I am making my suggestions based on reality as a man and practically from an Islamic point of view. Allah tells men and women to lower their gaze and also tells women to cover their beauty. When either of the sexes fail in doing this, you will have fitna in society. So no i don’t authority to say what is “permissible” and what is not, but I don’t think Islam asks to be perfect either. We should always be trying to raise our level of Taqwa. What concerns me is when we begin to justify our sins instead of changing ourselves we want to change the deen. Yes people do sin in Pakistan but they don’t try to philosophize how what they did is “o.k” but try to hide it. That is much less dangerous than trying to justify. That’s what the Jews and Christians have done.