Caught my Husband Watching Porn For the Past 3 Years

[madz124]

Re: Caught my Husband Watching Porn For the Past 3 Years

@queer

tell him to stop with the porn or you’ll tell his mom.

and if he openly checks out other women even when you are with him, either he thinks he is being discreet and failing, or he doesn’t really respect you. i say tell his mom about this too.

^ This.

@gudiaali

Islamically u say it is not correct to watch porn, then is it correct islamically to get divorce from your otherwise good husband just because he watches porn??

may be m wrong but i feel that u have it at the back of ur mind that u dont want to live ur life with him and get a divorce and u r just looking for some kind of reassurance that it you are justified in doing so.
may be its not just that he watches porn or stare at other women that u are looking for a separation wih him. may be,just may be deep down you just dont love him enuff to stay for a lifetime with him. may be u urself are looking to experience a life with someone else.
watching porn is normal for a lot of guys/men even the married ones. Many wives just get along well with this fact as they feel it isn’t any harm to them. he must be lying to you about it because he knows that you would create an issue out of it whereas in his eyes it doesn’t mean a thing so perhaps to avoid the fights with you he lies about it.
i don’t know at least i think he is not cheating on you or anything and not really going out having some physical relationship with any other women, he is just watching what most of the men watch whether they admit it or not so why create a big issue out of it and take this to the extreme level of divorce?

Please stop talking!!! Before you decide to write creative bull**** on a public forum, please take a moment to think what if this was happening to your sister, daughter, best friend, or worst, yourself. Would you have given the same “advice” then?

“…‘just because’ he watches porn?” JUST BECAUSE??? Sharam se doob marne ka maqaam hai. Yeh muslim community ka haal hai.