Cast, culture, and langauge in marriage

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Cast, culture, and language are important in marriage.

Here is my few observation on this issue.

They is not from our community – yeh hamari biradri ka nahi hia

Their cast is different – unki zaat alag hai

We don’t give girl to non Syeds – Ham gher syedon main beti nahi dety

What are your observation on cast, culture and language issues in marriages?

Is your family still following old school cast language debate in marriage proposal?

What is your take on this issue?

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Re: Cast, culture, and langauge in marriage

You is making a bad attempt to be angrez.

(following grammar nazi TS)

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Re: Cast, culture, and langauge in marriage

@shaasavera @SID_NY @Dhoti_Main_Dhamaka @KKF @jasos @arleitier

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Re: Cast, culture, and langauge in marriage

Hum sirf Urdu isspeaking main shaadi karain ge. :snooty:
No painDu Punjabi mediums. :hoonh:

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Re: Cast, culture, and langauge in marriage

Ham biharion main hi karty hian… :hehe:

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Re: Cast, culture, and langauge in marriage

No Bihari, they have a weird/funny language. :snooty:

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Re: Cast, culture, and langauge in marriage

yes biharis have a funny weird language (racist).

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Re: Cast, culture, and langauge in marriage

True in my family lol.

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Re: Cast, culture, and langauge in marriage

*Hum Karachi background wala dhoond rahe hain.
*
OR

Hum UP background ka larka dhoond rahe hain.

Both heard in my family! :slight_smile:

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Re: Cast, culture, and langauge in marriage

:slight_smile:

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Re: Cast, culture, and langauge in marriage

Lighten up. It was a joke. :smack:
And I really enjoy Bihari when they speak it in Pakistani TV plays.

Go read my reply in the bheegi billi thread.

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Re: Cast, culture, and langauge in marriage

I still find the caste part happens a lot in India.
In my family caste is not an issue but preference for someone who speaks same language is still there. But just as a preference not necessity.

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Re: Cast, culture, and langauge in marriage

very common, marrying within castes and even voting in this fashion. This trend is weakening in the current generation though.

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Re: Cast, culture, and langauge in marriage

Pendu production

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Re: Cast, culture, and langauge in marriage

^ You ? :slight_smile:

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Re: Cast, culture, and langauge in marriage

Proud pendu :stuck_out_tongue:

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Re: Cast, culture, and langauge in marriage

Pendu means speaking Punjabi?

Jo bhi ho jaye fairness is still important in marriages. All marriage ads ask for fair girl or boy. Seems like Sanwala salona aur sanwali saloni sirf songs mein hote hain

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Re: Cast, culture, and langauge in marriage

mein us larki sey shadi karoon ga jo fer fer angraizi bolti ho :cobra: meera, veena and mathira sey mazret k sath :smilestar:

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Re: Cast, culture, and langauge in marriage

kuch case KKF jaisey bhi hein jo kahtey hein bus nabz chalti ho :cobra:

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Re: Cast, culture, and langauge in marriage

Waesy Alhamdulilah kuch kami si agayi hy is cheez mein ab, i known a pathan family, who used to prefer marriages in their own caste mgr ab they have also started giving their daughters in urdu speaking, rest ziada tar buzurg aisa karty hain kay nhi dety ham.