Re: Case of Abuse or Its Just Her Duty?
I don't buy into this desi inlaws expectation crap. I will help my husband. I will help his parents. I will help my parents. The minute anything is imposed on me, there will be a problem. The only one who can impose anything on me is God and he did not say anywhere that I have to do that.
With that being said, so who cares if she was aware of routine of her inlaws beforehand? Just because she was aware does not make it any less abusive. And, it is abusive. It may not be intentional abuse but it is abusive nonetheless. And maybe it is just a communication problem but do those people who expect her to do all this not have a heart? Are they that blind that they don't realize the poor girl is working her butt off ? I fail to believe that. They know it. They just don't care. I wonder if those inlaws would be okay with that if they knew it was their daughter doing that for her inlaws. . .