Is your hubby trying to help you at home specially in the kitchen? When you tired from doing home work, he makes a cup of coffee/tea for you or suggests you to take tablets and rest. He take cares of your likes and dislikes …etc
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I dont know about hubby but I wish my wife was like the one you describe above. She doesn't work around the house at all. I mean she doesn't mow the lawn, blow the leaves, clean the garage, vacuum the house, walk the dogs, take kids to the playground. She doesn't help at all. Good for nothing woman I demand a refund, I would have gone for a replacement but its over a year now.
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yeah with you sitting here I wonder what mamof3 could possible be doing.
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I think mine is pretty good. He works longer hours than I do, so mostly I do the cooking. We both work however, so sometimes he does it too. Mostly when we get home that is how we catch up with the day. We both do our thing in the kitchen. One cuts, one cooks, etc. We talk about things doing this and it became a nice ritual, keeps us close.
On his day off, he usually visits his family, but will do the laundry first (which drives me nuts, but I can't complain since he thinks he is helping). He never folds the clothes when the dryer is done, just leaves them in a pile. I always ask WHY?? He says, that's what the iron is for.
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I would have gone for a replacement but its over a year now.
u have triplets!
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Yea sometimes he helps me and he also cook for me sometimes lolz.
It's kinda funny coz when he lived in Pakistan he never cooked in his life.
But he makes meat better then me lolz!
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No, i’m the caretaker of the house, kid(s) and my husband. I’m the type of person that never wants to show any type of weakness. Ofcourse I get tired, being 7months pregnant and raising a 3 year old. i don’t expect my husband to do any domestic things to show he cares. For us, the best way to show caring is just in everyday mutual respect. We’ve never raised our voices to eachother, never argued in all the 5 years of our marriage. We’re both patient and understanding of eachother. We have trust and admiration of eachother and we communicate. We speak to eachother from the heart, don’t play any games.
I’m the kind of person that does not like to be babied. If it happens like when i have the flu…I find it wierd. I want to do things for myself and still do things for others too.
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My hubby helps me from time to time, especially in the kitchen, when sometimes I get tired of eating my own cooked food, he helps into inventing new food combination and otherwise with peeling onions or hacking veggies and making pieces of meat and freezing them.
I must say, I never get tired of housework, its the other way around housework is a good change from office work, I like the physical work. I am not sick so often, but if he takes care of me.
I try to finish all my work before I go to bed, my kitchen has to be clean and the dishes washed. I like to be in control of my home, even though I am working 40 hours.
We have discussed that, I am in charge of house matters, where as my husband gives suggestions.
There are times, when he makes me a cup of tea or milk, thats when I really want to relax and he takes care of it.
I think care and love has to be mutal, one cant give all the time and the other one just take all time.
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uh hubby should not need ta hep out his wife in housework. Thats da freakin wife's job. Does da wife hep da hubby in his officework? nahh. Aiight, so if da wife needs any he`p it mus' be cuz she iz not doin' her job correctly. In dat case she bettah git her act togethar or git get ready fo' uh suatan. slap mah fro!
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F. O. B Alert
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reprezent yo!
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If I am busy in kitchen specially for Davat, When I finished my 80% work in kitchen he came and asked with smile "Do you need any help"?, I said thanks for asking but its ok I finished all work, plz just get ready to recieve guests, I will do it by myself. He said o.k. But all the time he takecares said all the time be careful don't do it in hurry you burned your self.
I don't like it too to take his help in the kitchen but some time it you are too busy in the kitchen and he just put glass from dining table to the kitchen sink, it really makes me relax that thanks for doing favor.
In bachelor's life he helped his sisters in Ramazan like doing little tasks, cutting of fruit and watching what they are cooking in the kitchen but he did not know how to cook, Two years before when I was in Pakistan for two months, I cooked different dishes and freeze it for two months coz he like homemade meals. But when he bored after eating frozen food, he cooked biryani but it became soggy :( . When he called us in Pakistan, told us what happend with his cooking but he was still happy"Apna pakaya hoa to sub say behtareen lagta hai chahay soggy hi kiyon na ho gaya ho" :) .
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husbands 
hearts in the right place but pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeee dont help!!!
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I will ask my wife to let you knw once i get married..
:)
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i dont like being babied either but like my fiance babies me like crazy, sometimes i wanna tell him to GO AWAY but then he’d prob start crying
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thats it!!! how did i miss this??
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lussi lussi he's our man,
if he cant do it,
only viagra can
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Don't you have maids and cooks?
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What kind of tablets is he insisting you take. Kidding. You should let him know how much his caring nature means to you.
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uh i already told u..but thats what u get for not calling me:( 